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meditation · 15 min · presence

The Counterweight — Death Contemplation

Not morbid — clarifying. This practice borrows from traditions as old as humans and uses the book's framing of death as the counterweight that makes life mean anything.

The Practice

  1. 01

    Sit somewhere private. Set a 15-minute timer.

  2. 02

    Take three slow breaths. Let the body settle.

  3. 03

    Bring to mind the fact — not the feeling, the fact — that this life ends.

  4. 04

    Picture today as the last day. What suddenly matters more? What suddenly matters less?

  5. 05

    Do not try to act on the answers. Just let them surface.

  6. 06

    When the timer ends, write one sentence about what changed in the weighting.

Death is not the opposite of life — it is what gives life its outline. Sitting with it, briefly and regularly, sharpens the line.

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